- Values-based approach
- Practical homework
- Family and parenting
About James
Dr. James Ruby is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with 22 years of experience. He works with adults on relationship and family concerns, grief, stress, anxiety, and parenting challenges. He brings a calm, practical approach that aims to help people make concrete changes in daily life.
He uses a blend of approaches that focus on values, personal meaning, and the client’s own goals. Sessions often include talking through patterns that no longer serve the client and practicing small steps to try new ways of relating and coping. He may suggest brief exercises or homework between sessions to help people test changes outside the therapy room.
Dr. Ruby emphasizes that past experiences matter but do not have to define the future. He helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and decide what matters most to them. The work often looks at emotional, cognitive, and behavioral patterns and how they affect relationships and parenting roles.
People seeking help for caregiver stress, communication problems, divorce and separation, fatherhood questions, or end-of-life concerns will find topics Dr. Ruby commonly addresses. He also supports issues around addiction, trauma, intimacy, workplace stress, and life purpose.
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients. He practices from Hawaii and asks prospective clients to use the site’s Start Therapy process to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to his availability.
How Dr. Ruby’s approaches translate to online therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small steps in that direction. It focuses on values, willingness to feel difficult emotions, and committed action toward meaningful goals. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a nonjudgmental, listening stance where the client’s own experience guides the work; this approach helps people feel heard and find their own solutions.Finding the right fit for therapy is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and practical needs and then try approaches that match those priorities. Together the client and therapist track what helps and adjust methods over time.
The original biography does not list which online session formats are used, so confirm available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into busy days, shorten travel time, and allow check-ins during work breaks or between commitments. It can also let people practice new ways of relating in their everyday settings and quickly follow up on homework between sessions.
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Experience
22+ years
Listed in
Hawaii, Iowa
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of problems does he help with?
He helps people with relationship and family concerns, grief, coping with life changes, stress, anxiety, addictions, parenting, and related issues such as caregiver stress and communication problems.
What is his general therapeutic style?
He combines values-oriented work with client-centered listening and psychodynamic reflection. Sessions are collaborative and focus on small practical steps between meetings.
How long has he been practicing?
Dr. Ruby has 22 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples, and families since 1998.
Where is he based and what are his credentials?
He practices from Hawaii and holds the LMHC credential. The profile lists IA LMHC and HI LMHC as credential details.
Can I work with him if I live outside the United States?
Yes, international clients are accepted. Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
The original profile does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.
How does payment work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin if I want to work with him?
Use the Start Therapy button on the site, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.